It's also a more intimate thing that either person might not be fully comfortable with. Because of the time it takes and the mess it can make, it can't always be the go-to foreplay. "For me, it's definitely something that should be saved for certain partners and circumstances. RELATED: Why Men Care So Damn Much About Knowing When You've Had An Orgasm Do men enjoy performing oral sex on any woman, or do you reserve it for certain partners or certain circumstances? 1. Getting her turned on and wanting me is what keeps me going back for more." - Jamal, 24 It can get pretty messy down there, sometimes you get a hair or two in your mouth, and you end up uncomfortably hard while in an awkward position on the bed. The fact that it gives her pleasure is the primary reason that it turns me on. "I don't think that the two things are separable. "They're equal for me, but I can see how others would lean either way." - Adam, 25 And then there are men who enjoy giving oral sex for both reasons. But to me, it's about the connection with the other person, about finding something that's mutually pleasurable and fulfilling." - James, 31ģ. "Most definitely, the pleasure that it gives her is what's appealing, as it's most definitely not appealing if the person isn't into it or if we're not connecting and it's not pleasurable. RELATED: 10 Questions Women Have Always Wanted To Ask About Men - And What Guys Really Think What do guys like most about giving a woman oral sex - the pleasure it gives her or the fact that it turns you on? 1. If that itself doesn’t turn you on, you know you’ve got issues. "If a man doesn’t agree that it’s the pleasure it gives the woman, he’s a jerk. There is definitely no greater turn-off than when a woman is laying there and you can tell she’s not having a good time. "The entire situation is hot! How turned on she’s getting, and the thought that it will only get better from there is usually a huge turn-on for me." - Brian, 31ġ0. I like how she gets turned on, but it’s not like sex." - Andres, 26 9.
There’s only so much you can get turned on.
"In all honesty, I probably sound like a total jerk but it doesn’t work for me. My enjoyment of it, then, is a reflection of the pleasure that it gives the person receiving, which begs the question of whether I'm objectifying their pleasure." - James, 31 8. I have definitely not enjoyed oral sex, but it usually was because the person I was with wasn't really into it, so we communicated about it in some way and stopped. But it's likely more to do with whether my partner enjoys it.
More often than not, I like the way it tastes and like the feeling of it. "It's a combination of enjoying the aesthetic or physical act. Some say giving a woman oral sex tastes good. Second, women need to be warmed up properly and going down on them can really do the job to get them worked up physically and even mentally (relating back to my first point about doing things for her rather than myself)." - Jamal, 24 7. It also makes the entire sexual experience much better for a couple of reasons. "I really enjoy being able to do something for my woman and her knowing that I'm not only doing it for myself. Giving oral sex extends the whole experience.